"one person in the relationship settles for the other, who is involved in a relationship with someone out of his or her league"
"A quintessential example of this is a very attractive woman, with an extremely unattractive guy that likely happens to be a very sweet dude. Now, the good-looking girl is clearly the settler because she certainly, at least looks wise, could do much better than her current boyfriend. However, - and this is important - he already knows he is reaching with her, so he’s constantly showering her with love through compliments, gifts, general lovey stuff, and attention."
"if she establishes the “want” more so than the guy in the situation, she is going to be the one always reaching for him in the context of their relationship"
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"A quintessential example of this is a very attractive woman, with an extremely unattractive guy that likely happens to be a very sweet dude. Now, the good-looking girl is clearly the settler because she certainly, at least looks wise, could do much better than her current boyfriend. However, - and this is important - he already knows he is reaching with her, so he’s constantly showering her with love through compliments, gifts, general lovey stuff, and attention."
"if she establishes the “want” more so than the guy in the situation, she is going to be the one always reaching for him in the context of their relationship"
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